5 guidelines from 3 verses. 1. Do not lose heart 2. These are light and momentary troubles 3. We live in a temporary world 4. Focus on what is unseen 5. If you live for something greater than yourself the temporal fades away You can find these guidelines, written by Paul, in 2 Corinthians 4:16-18. [...]

Some wise friends told me, “Look for someone who has what you want and then partner with them.” That is a good suggestion. While I’m thankful for great advice, perceptions and suggestions from my single friends I have to ask, “If you’re not in a successful marriage then how do you know what truly works?” [...]

Organic dating is dating the old fashioned way. There are no dating web sites, no speed dating parties, no matchmaker lunches or iPhone apps. Organic dating is meeting someone in real life, through friends, a social network, volunteering or even through work. The last 2 women I’ve dated I met organically. I’m pleased with the [...]

Remember that Mick Jagger song, “Lucky At Love?” (No one will fault if you don’t. It’s not good.) I could have my own version called, “Unlucky At Love.” I’m kidding. I had written another post detailing a recent dating experience. However my judgment says to not post that for public consumption. What I will post [...]

No one wants to be told no. No one. Some of the worst pain I felt in life, and I imagine most men would echo, resulted from a woman telling me no. Rejection has a proportion to it. The longer the relationship, the deeper the pain of that rejection. There are many ways to deal [...]

Of all the topics I’ve written about here over 4 years, dating is the one that sparked the most interaction. A huge frustration in my life has been dating. How do you even define what dating is? What does it look like? What works in the 21st Century? How do you deal with all the [...]