NOTE: I’m making an effort to get JamSmooth.com back on track and having a least one or two (hopefully more) posts a week from now on. I got a extraordinary e-mail from a reader this week which gave me a new fire.
I wrote about how great it is that I can watch TV whenever and wherever we want. However is what I’m watching helping me? Does it fill my mind with crap, negativity, lust and envy? Is what I’m watching the best use of my time?
I watch shows like Entourage, True Blood, Party Down, Mad Men, Californication and Arrested Development. These shows make me laugh at loud which is saying something. I’m pretty jaded. However most of them frequently have female nudity, swearing and characters portraying decidedly Non Christ-Like behaviors like infidelity, doing drugs, getting drunk, not encouraging one another and lots of insecurity. These behaviors lead to great comedy but at what expense? Would Jesus watch these shows? Should I stop watching them? Are these shows having a negative affect on my spiritual life? Are they wasting my time? As a follower of Christ I am called to higher state.
Paul writes in Philippians 4:8, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Watching those shows is definitely not thinking about pure things. I’m watching others commit sin after sin.
You could say, “Well Jam, it’s just entertainment. Are you doing the things depicted in the shows? Are you wanting to be like the characters? Why are you being so uptight?” Valid questions. Honestly I can say that I haven’t felt the Spirit telling me I should stop. I don’t feel like watching these shows is affecting my relationship with Christ. Yet am I missing it? Is there a hidden, subconscious effect?
Sometimes I ask the question not what would Jesus do, but what would Andy Stanley do? Andy Stanley is my pastor and leads 30,000 people in Atlanta. I doubt that Andy watches these shows. You could say, “Well Andy has a family and doesn’t have as much time as you. Plus he leads a huge organization.”
True but Andy is no better than I. Andy is called to the same level as a follower that I am. I think it all comes down to this, are you attached to things of the world or things from above. Think about these verses, 1 Corinthians 10:31-33, ” So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God. 32 Do not cause anyone to stumble, whether Jews, Greeks or the church of God— 33 even as I try to please everybody in every way. For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved.”
If others know I am a follower and watch these types of shows they’ll think it’s ok, right? What if someone else watches these shows and it does cause them to sin? Am I at fault? It doesn’t matter if I’m leading a huge church. If I cause one person to stumble I’m going against God’s commands clearly.
Again I feel confident that these shows are not affecting me. It’s entertainment for me. Now I’ve told you all about these shows. You may watch them. What if watching them causes you to sin? For that reason alone should I stop?