Comments on: Dating – What Not To Say, Part 2 http://www.jamsmooth.com/2010/02/dating-what-not-to-say-part-2/ Nature Is A Language Can't You Read Wed, 21 Jul 2010 17:03:01 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: T Burns http://www.jamsmooth.com/2010/02/dating-what-not-to-say-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-122194 T Burns Thu, 04 Feb 2010 14:07:30 +0000 http://www.jamsmooth.com/?p=792#comment-122194 Once, as a wee lad, I dated this girl. Err - she wanted to hang out all the time and I figured that she seemed nice enough and would give it a shot. We hung out a few times over the course of two weeks and she constantly compared me to her ex boyfriend. Ugh. It was never negative but it was clear that she had some issues with her sense of security and painfully obvious she was still hung up on him. Unfortunately her emotional maturity really shined through when I told her that I wasn't really interested and that maybe we shouldn't hang out anymore. She flipped, calling me names and making 5th grade insults. It was sad, really. I recently saw a picture of her on Facebook. I haven't spoken to her in 5 years but from the looks of things she got back with her ex, gained about 50 pounds, and had a kid. That's a handful of redemption. (Yea, I look for justice in the most selfish way, I know) Ya know, I don't have much advice on this one. Other than the above I have actually dated pretty normal people! Once, as a wee lad, I dated this girl. Err – she wanted to hang out all the time and I figured that she seemed nice enough and would give it a shot. We hung out a few times over the course of two weeks and she constantly compared me to her ex boyfriend. Ugh. It was never negative but it was clear that she had some issues with her sense of security and painfully obvious she was still hung up on him.

Unfortunately her emotional maturity really shined through when I told her that I wasn’t really interested and that maybe we shouldn’t hang out anymore. She flipped, calling me names and making 5th grade insults. It was sad, really.

I recently saw a picture of her on Facebook. I haven’t spoken to her in 5 years but from the looks of things she got back with her ex, gained about 50 pounds, and had a kid. That’s a handful of redemption. (Yea, I look for justice in the most selfish way, I know)

Ya know, I don’t have much advice on this one. Other than the above I have actually dated pretty normal people!

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