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This practice of dating goes back to Colonial times. I sit here this morning and wonder, “Is there a better way to get to know someone?” I want to smash this idea of dating that we have. With what? I don’t know. I would like your help.

Dating is a 300 year old concept. Does that concept of dating fit in the 21st Century? The days of the dowry are extinct. Some traditions remain, such as asking the father for his daughter’s hand. Those are good and respectful, but those aren’t a part of dating but marriage.

Sometimes dating is no more than a “job interview” over dinner or drinks. Questions like, “Where do you see yourself in 5 years,” may appear. Or even, “What’s your weaknesses,” or “Tell me a time of when you exhibited leadership.” Is modern dating nothing more than an interview for the position of husband or wife?

Is it time for this 300 year old model of dating to be smashed? Is there another way to get to know someone?