For The Record
Eharmony is NOT a good product. I do not recommend it or any other dating site. This is my second time with it and again the results are lackluster. I should’ve stuck to my original decision and not pursued Internet dating. It doesn’t work for me.
From here on out the women I date will be those I meet in “real life.” Sure this takes more courage because I have to approach and take a risk. However I have a new confidence and the rejection doesn’t bother me anymore.
Now I choose to put my faith in God. He will put the right women in my path and it’s up to me to step out in faith and take action.
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Well, my ex Karla met someone real nice and my friend Claude is happily living w/ someone from Eharmony so I don’t think it’s altogether bad. Other than church it’s very hard to meet people. Try some volunteer work like Hands on Atlanta or something.
i, too don’t think eharmony is all bad. i was matched with someone great, and we now live together. a dear friend’s sister is getting married in june to a guy she met on match.com. i think it’s a little harder for guys on dating sites, b/c apparently there are like three times more dudes than girls on them. the ladies have it good, b/c they can pick and choose…
I’m going to have to say I completely disagree with this.
Maybe God’s romantic plan for you doesn’t involve the internet, but that doesn’t mean it can’t for others.
Yah, see Jam; that’s what I mean. It’s easier for women as I suspected. Personally if I were a girl I would be afraid to get on one of those sites.
I don’t believe anyone has ever met anyone online. I actually believe that anyone who says they met online is on the payroll of said company. This way these dating sites can collect money from people for a service that does not work.
Beat that.
its not the dating sites problem u can’t find anyone
So I guess Claude’s girlfriend who he lives with is a figment of my imagination?
I think you have to do whatever works for you.
That said, my sister married a guy she met on yahoo personals (like 10 years ago), my coworker is getting married in Sept to a girl he met on match, and another couple of friends have done the same (match couplings).
That said, I did match, the onion and was rejected by eharmony. I met a lot of nice guys I dated for a while but in the end wound up with a guy I met in real life…at the office of all places.
Best bet in my book is to be happy alone, make your list of characteristics your dream mate has and sit back. They’ll arrive when they’re supposed to.
Not the answer anyone wants to hear, I know…but rest assured, your mate is out there.